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Porn Has Personally Destroyed my Family!

Circle of Moms article John Holmes

By Debra Leah Holmes – posted on 08/04/2012 at Circle of Moms I wanted to start this discussion on a 4 letter Word that will be my Enemy until I take my last breath because it has personally destroyed one of my family members and has torn a path of destruction in my family for 30 years!…

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Would my wife make love to me more if I loved her more?

ancient gold coin two sides

Like most people, I want my needs met. As a man, I definitely want my sexual needs met. I’d like it if my wife made love to me more. More sex makes me happy. My wife understands that desire of mine, but my wants are not always fulfilled. That can make me frustrated. I naturally see things from my point of view,…

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Honey, could you recommend any good porn sites for me?

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You know how it goes when you’re looking for advice on something- you run the idea by a buddy, and sometimes what you hear is, “Have you run that by your wife?” That is a wise response from one who knows the value of a woman’s insight. A woman gives you another angle at something that can’t originate inside a male brain. Now imagine…

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Free After 40 Years

photo of Phil Naukam

Testimony: Free After 40 Years Outwardly, Phil and Bobi Naukam looked like a happy couple. With others, Phil seemed kind and friendly, but alone with Bobi and their three children, he was sarcastic, abusive, and full of rage. The underlying reason: his 40-year addiction to pornography since age 13. As a young man, Phil served…

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The case against the wife

Jack Webb, Dragnet

      Prosecutor: I’m afraid it’s pretty cut and dried, ma’am. It’s black and white. You can see it right there, can’t you ma’am? You have no excuse not to meet your husband’s sexual needs. It’s no less than fraud. And it’s a biblical command. Enter Counsel              …

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Why I stopped watching porn: Ran Gavrieli

Ran Gavrieli

Why I stopped watching porn: Ran Gavrieli at TEDxJaffa 2013

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Sex objects

tools and women as sex objects

Pictures shift a man’s view of a woman Men are more likely to think of women as sex objects if they have looked at sexy pictures of females, psychologists say. Through brain scans analysis, researchers are able to show that when men look at pictures of bikin-clad women, the areas of the brain that normally light up in anticipation of…

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13 FAQ’s with Douglas Weiss, PhD

Doug Weiss, PhD

Dr. Douglas Weiss, PhD 1.  WHAT IS SEX ADDICTION? Sex addiction is a method of medicating feelings and/or coping with stress to the degree that one’s sexual behavior becomes the major coping mechanism in their life. The individual often cannot stop the sexual behavior for any great length of time by themselves. The sex addict…

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Have you changed your camera lens?

camera lens

Have you changed your camera lens (the one on your brain)? The human eye- that marvelous organ- has a lense on it not unlike a camera. It receives signals from your eyeballs and helps your brain make sense of what you see. What does a lens do anyway? According to Wikipedia, the role of a camera lens is to “correct the many optical aberrations that arise in…

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Jesus lusted?

Professor at chalkboard

  Say what? Jesus lusted? Impossible. No, it’s not. But before we get to that, let’s look at an idea I call lust legalism.   Lot of fancy words there. Let’s look at one of the main, if not the main, verses used by the church on the topic of lust: Let’s break that verse…

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