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You know how it goes when you’re looking for advice on something- you run the idea by a buddy, and sometimes what you hear is, “Have you run that by your wife?” That is a wise response from one who knows the value of a woman’s insight. A woman gives you another angle at something that can’t originate inside a male brain. Now imagine…

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The case against the wife

Jack Webb, Dragnet

      Prosecutor: I’m afraid it’s pretty cut and dried, ma’am. It’s black and white. You can see it right there, can’t you ma’am? You have no excuse not to meet your husband’s sexual needs. It’s no less than fraud. And it’s a biblical command. Enter Counsel              …

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Free After 40 Years

photo of Phil Naukam

Testimony: Free After 40 Years Outwardly, Phil and Bobi Naukam looked like a happy couple. With others, Phil seemed kind and friendly, but alone with Bobi and their three children, he was sarcastic, abusive, and full of rage. The underlying reason: his 40-year addiction to pornography since age 13. As a young man, Phil served…

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Why I stopped watching porn: Ran Gavrieli

Ran Gavrieli

Why I stopped watching porn: Ran Gavrieli at TEDxJaffa 2013

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13 FAQ’s with Douglas Weiss, PhD

Doug Weiss, PhD

Dr. Douglas Weiss, PhD 1.  WHAT IS SEX ADDICTION? Sex addiction is a method of medicating feelings and/or coping with stress to the degree that one’s sexual behavior becomes the major coping mechanism in their life. The individual often cannot stop the sexual behavior for any great length of time by themselves. The sex addict…

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Have you changed your camera lens?

camera lens

Have you changed your camera lens (the one on your brain)? The human eye- that marvelous organ- has a lense on it not unlike a camera. It receives signals from your eyeballs and helps your brain make sense of what you see. What does a lens do anyway? According to Wikipedia, the role of a camera lens is to “correct the many optical aberrations that arise in…

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Jesus lusted?

Professor at chalkboard

  Say what? Jesus lusted? Impossible. No, it’s not. But before we get to that, let’s look at a new idea I’ll call lust legalism.   Lot of fancy words there. Now let’s look at one of the main, if not the main, verses used by the church on the topic: Let’s break that verse…

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Watch what you worship

Pornography is a powerful medium- strong enough to shape your future. That is because pornography can become a form of worship, and worship determines our destiny. The things we worship are the things we value most. Many of us consider our relationship with God as paramount, and direct our worship accordingly. The things we value most are the…

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The Landmines of Sexual Sin, by Charles Stanley

Warning Sign-Danger-Land-Mines

The Bible teaches us a basic truth: Sinful activity carries serious consequences. Sexual sin is no exception. Sexual sin is a devastating landmine indeed. We must use our bodies to glorify Him. Remaining sexually pure is a testimony to the world that we serve a holy God. Refusing to do so, however, is rebellion against…

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You are an Umbrella

The Umbrella of Protection

An umbrella? Well you resemble one in a spiritual sense. An umbrella protects. You, as a man, are an umbrella, or covering of protection over your family. Strong’s Concordance defines rule here as “to set over, to superintend, to be a protector or guardian. To care for.” You work in concert with God, because spiritual protection originates from God. Spiritual protection…

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